My Higher Self: How to Heal All Relationships

heartThank you to Lakshmi Bhatia and Master Sai Baba for their insight to this posting.

Everything in this Universe is nothing but electromagnetics.  Your heart is electromagnetic, your heart beat is electromagnetic, your prayers are electromagnetic, your emotions and your thoughts are all electromagnetic, and everything is an electromagnetic frequency.

Every two different individuals at any given time that are interacting with each other are vibrating at a particular electromagnetic frequency.  So what happens when you become awakened?  How does this shift the energies between two individuals and what happens then to that relationship?

When you have awakened, your frequencies are being lifted higher; they are being moved into a higher, more purified energy vibration.   This is the vibration of light.  As you ascend and awaken, you get closer to the higher light frequencies.  From your physical eyes, light is the purest frequency that you can see.

That is why you talk about the golden ray, the violet ray, the platinum ray, and all the different aspects of light.  So say two people are vibrating and they are initially in tune with each other and both are vibrating at a frequency that is aligned with their frequencies and then something happens and one person just shifts his or her frequency.

The other person is still continuing to hold and vibrate at their original same frequency because they have not seen any need for them to shift or change – the miracles that have happened to you have not happened to them.  So the other person is comfortable just being where they are.

You go off on this amazing journey and you shift your electromagnetic frequency to a higher level and when you come back to that old space where the other person is at, they know that you do not fit in anymore.  They feel uncomfortable.  So what is happening electromagnetically in this case?

Whenever a higher frequency of light comes into your electromagnetic field, it begins to disturb any of the lower frequencies which are not aligned to that higher frequency because it is trying to shift the charge of those lower frequencies to get it into alignment with this new higher frequency.

And that person with the lower frequency does not like it, they do not want to go there, as they are not ready for it yet.  And then you think why are they disturbed when it comes to you?  I have not changed.  Why are they so mean and judging towards you?  Remember that each time you have more light and you go back into their lower frequency with your higher frequency space, it is scaring them immensely.

You are communicating to them electromagnetically that you now have a higher polarity than they do, a higher frequency and this is automatically going to shift and change them.  But change is scary for most people.  So at a subconscious level, they begin to get scared.

Then they build their defenses and they come into their fear zone and when you are fearful some people will begin to retreat but most people will be aggressive and most people will tend to attack.  It is the flight or fight response.  And this is what you are seeing happening in your lives.

You will have a lot of opposition in your life as you continue to shift your vibrations.  This happens a lot when there are two strong energy fields between two people.  You can have a very strong negative field; you can have a very strong positive field.  Both are strong fields.  This is why we talk about light and dark, night and day, life and death – these are the polarities.

In this physical universe, polarities are there because without the polarities, you cannot have one without the other; you cannot have light without darkness.  So you have these two strong fields.  So say you have two strong people.  Both of you are very strongly integrated in your field. You are at opposite polarities (polar opposites) and now you are interacting with each other.

Each one is chipping away at the other.  Whoever holds on to the denser field will typically tend to pull in the other, but not always.  This is why you are told in spiritual terms that you have to protect yourself when working with these lower fields and you have these energy shields.

Why? Because sometimes people with a lot of issues also have very strong fields of drama, negativity, judgment, criticism, etc…and they can drain you out and lower your vibration and shift you into their field and you finish this interaction with them and you feel like a train wreck and you do not know what happened.

You may not be able to hold your field in the face of their fields.  But this is what is happening between any two individuals on this planet.  It is a game of electromagnetics.  The one with the stronger field is going to be OK.  So how do you have the stronger field?  One is through conscious intent.

When you go into any of these spaces, the first thing is to consciously align yourself and ground yourself.  Do this by seeing this golden column of light coming and place yourself in the double pyramid – bring in the gold and bring in the platinum and place the violet flame around you because violet transmutes.

So if a lower vibration is coming from anyone, it will hit the violet flame and it will transmute this lower energy that they carry.  See a column of violet light and place it outside your home front door before anyone with a lower vibration comes in and give the intent that this person will walk through this violet flame and they will enter the home so that whatever they have absorbed which is not light will be outside the home.

Before you interact with anyone that had dense energies, put them in so much of violet light and ask St. Germain to do all of the electromagnetic realignment so that you are allowed to go into that space and it does not take a toll on you.  You must go into the space of non-duality as the higher spiritual truth is that we are all One.

As long as you see them as separate, you are still operating in the field of duality.  So if you want to master this, you have to move into this zone of non-duality.  So go into this space and see them, not as your husband, a father, a wife, a child, but as loving souls and beings of light.  There will be times when you have to interact with people who are difficult.

See their sacred heart and talk to their sacred heart in your mind.  So see this beautiful sacred heart in them and talk to this sacred heart.  This will help you see them as light beings.  Tell them telepathically that you know they are the same Divinity as you and today you will operate from this space of Divinity and not the lower level drama because you choose now to let go of all of the lower drama.

Have this conversation in your mind.  Also, remember that perfection is not selective.  Everything is perfect.  You choose to define something, like this is good, this is not.  This is you and your duality.  It is all perfect and it cannot be any other way.  All is Divinely perfect at all times.

Tell each soul who you are struggling with that you know who they are and tell them that you appreciate what a difficult role they have chosen for themselves in this lifetime.  And speak to them from your heart.  It maybe that for the first time in their lives at a soul level, someone recognizes them.

And someone will recognize this painful lifetime they have taken on for all of your lessons that you are learning.  And just thank them for everything.  Tell them that you know where they are and what they think about you is OK – tell them this.  Tell them that you know it’s where they are and it’s what they need right now and that’s OK.

Tell them that you are slightly at a different point in your journey and this is OK too.  And that you respect them and where they are and that hopefully one day they can understand where you are and it’s all about love.  This was the message of Jesus.  His main lesson was love, love, love and more love.  This is the Christ Consciousness.

So see the other person operating in love and you do the same.  When you do this from your heart, no more of the judgments or criticisms can even touch you because you will only see them in that sacred heart as they are just another embodiment of Divine love and then you know you are free.

You have healed yourself and removed all blocks and attachments holding you back with respect to all of your hard relationships.  You are now back in your heart space.  You are love again and love is the highest energy vibration there is!  Be LOVE!!

Andrew – Love

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  1. Andrew, thanks a lot, I read some of your inspiring articles. You may add my name in your love bomb meditation. My name is Belen E. from the Philippines.


  2. DEAR ANDREW, alleluiah** i was looking for a meditation to heal difficult relationships fr our small meidation group in faenza itlay next week..
    .. thnak you angeli c hug.. this is perfect –, similar to one i found in 1 on Jasmuheen ‘s meidtations.. this is more simple wiht the visualizations.. miracle blessings from all ASCNEDED MASTERS
    Anna from Italy


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